Somehow I wondering feeling about "A life after"
1. A Life after marriage
I am not married yet, will be, hope it soon, but I guess not. I knew already how is marriage gonna work out. I knew what a good mother is, a good father is, a good wife is and even a good husband is. But I don't think I know how to be. Not until I want to feel it all by myself. But seeing my marrying friends, no words come out. I am not speechless it just something that I couldn't trace it in words. Most of my friends who got marriage at my age I see them still hang around. I don't know it always something zipped my mouth on looking how they live their life
2. A life after baby born
I am not having a baby yet, hope it soon, but I guess I hope so. A child, how could it turn your life upside down or not? Tell me. Everyone seems okay and delightful. but are you sure your going to be a good mom or dad? Are you sure you're not going to yell back at your child when he/she crying? Are you sure you're not going to hit or pinch your children when he/she nag at your right when you're got home and very tired after work or when you and your spouse in fight or whatever? Tell me.
This is not about people choosing to get married or have babies sooner or in their time. This is not about my fear on getting married or having babies soon. This is not about you're getting ready or not to have a new life. I just wondering "this is about how you soul gonna think about your new life", most of us didn't know our self, then how could you know your spouse moreover your future babies soul and deal with it?
1. A Life after marriage
I am not married yet, will be, hope it soon, but I guess not. I knew already how is marriage gonna work out. I knew what a good mother is, a good father is, a good wife is and even a good husband is. But I don't think I know how to be. Not until I want to feel it all by myself. But seeing my marrying friends, no words come out. I am not speechless it just something that I couldn't trace it in words. Most of my friends who got marriage at my age I see them still hang around. I don't know it always something zipped my mouth on looking how they live their life
2. A life after baby born
I am not having a baby yet, hope it soon, but I guess I hope so. A child, how could it turn your life upside down or not? Tell me. Everyone seems okay and delightful. but are you sure your going to be a good mom or dad? Are you sure you're not going to yell back at your child when he/she crying? Are you sure you're not going to hit or pinch your children when he/she nag at your right when you're got home and very tired after work or when you and your spouse in fight or whatever? Tell me.
This is not about people choosing to get married or have babies sooner or in their time. This is not about my fear on getting married or having babies soon. This is not about you're getting ready or not to have a new life. I just wondering "this is about how you soul gonna think about your new life", most of us didn't know our self, then how could you know your spouse moreover your future babies soul and deal with it?
Any body can help me tell the answer. If not, I might have to wait till my time.
Cheers,
